| PRODN
Learning Event
Monthly
Program:
Thursday, June 20, 2002
with Beryl Byles |

The evening of June 20,2002 PRODN debuted the final program of
the 2001-2002 year "Developing Your Own Leadership Aria:
Bridging Two Unrelated Issues Of The Heart". Using the
main character of Bizet's masterpiece Carmen to illustrate her thesis,
Beryl B. Byles, Principal of Bridge Consulting helped participants
explore how we could identify our authentic leadership aria.
Beryl provided a wonderful video of Carmen's two most famous and
seductive arias. Our first introduction to Carmen, Habañera:
"Love Is A Wild Bird", sung by a believable Julia Migenes
and to a young Placido Domingo as Don José provides a glimpse
into Carmen's character, and motivators. She likes to use her physical
power to attract men, particularly men in uniform.
Having learned a bit about Carmen, we shifted the focus to back
into the room and complete an activity where we identify our heroes
and the characteristics they have in common.
Listening to the second aria, Séguedille: "Outside
the walls of Séville", we see Carmen's self-destructive
nature and ego-centered drive. Carmen wants what is best for Carmen,
and once her conquest is achieved, she dismisses Don José.
She cares nothing for his hurt or the impact of his obsession on
Micaëla, his heart-broken sweetheart. Carmen illustrates how
unexamined behavior can set in motion destructive consequences to
others, and finally to herself.
At this point the group ventured onto the bridge between this powerful
music and the passion we connect with when we are authentic leaders
(embrace our leadership aria). A tool called the Leadership Aria
Matrix links our heroes' characteristics to our own energizers.
Using this discovery, we considered a choice in our lives and used
the matrix to understand which choice could best engage our energizers.
Where Carmen lived an unexamined life, we can choose to consider
choices that allow us to honor the things that support our energy,
and bypass choices that remove passion from our lives. Making a
conscious choice to "sing" creates the stage for our own
leadership aria.
It is just possible that making examined choices can lessen the
outcome that haunts the story of Carmen where her fatal flaw harms
others and ultimately herself. The opera ends at the moment of Carmen's
great triumph. As she enters the town magnificently dressed on the
arm of Escamillo, a famous bullfighter, Carmen is killed by the
humiliated Don José. Her ego-driven choices influenced the
circumstances leading to her death.
"Without
music, life would be a mistake" Friedrich Nietzsche
| Beryl
B. Byles, Principal of Bridge Consulting Associates, specializes
in leadership and management development of senior executives
in large corporations, CEO’s of small to mid-sized companies
and leaders of non-profit enterprises. She applies her
30 years experience to facilitate individual change and
growth toward greater effectiveness within management
teams. Multi-national clients have included ARCO Chemical,
AstraZeneca Pharmaceuticals, Boeing Corporation, CIGNA,
General Electric and the like. Additional clients have
included CoreStates Bank, Crozer/Keystone Medical Center,
PECO Energy, Greater Philadelphia Chamber of Commerce
and Opera Company of Philadelphia. .She enjoys singing
and has served in several vocal groups. She is an active
patron of, volunteer with and "spear-carrier"
or super in opera which is often a highlight of her domestic
and international travel. Beryl holds a BA from Southeastern
LA University and an MBA from the University of Dallas. |
Program Announcement
Music is a key influencer in our day to day lives,
but rarely do we consider it to provide a lens into our own
leadership style. This evening's program will provide entertainment
as well as a thought provoking, self discovery process in which
you will discover your own unique, authentic leadership style
and the opportunities to apply it effectively.
Using a video of the opera "Carmen"
and linking your struggle to the definition of "drama"
from Aristotle, Beryl Byles will lead us in considering the
choices in the drama of our lives. The program will accent a
guided self-discovery process to determine how to influence
growth and change as a leader. Because leadership is not so
much "what we do" but rather "who we are",
we need to explore the dramas of our lives to understand how
our individual expressions of our own leadership can be powerful.
You will leave the session with a self-awareness
tool that you can use to guide choices that authentically reflect
your unique leadership style, your "aria" of leadership.
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